Very Bad Wizards

Episode 132: Emotional Willpower (with David DeSteno)

January 23rd, 2018  |  1 hr 35 mins

compassion, dave desteno, emotional success, emotions, gratitude, pride, utilitarianism

What's the best way to build self-control, patience, productivity, and delayed marshmallow eating? For decades psychologists and economists have told us to develop traits like willpower and grit. But psychologist David DeSteno describes a better, easier, and more effective path--the emotions. We talk to David about his new (not-self-help) book "Emotional Success," which argues that the emotions of gratitude, pride, and compassion can help us fulfill long-term goals and (as a special bonus) make us happier and better people.

Plus, David and Tamler take a quiz that measures how utilitarian they are, and you won't believe the results!!! (Actually, you will.)